The Lady Of The Nite

Sometimes one get a request liked an "Agony Aunt" in the Sunday News that sounded liked this: -

"My name is A. I have a friend (female), still just a friend, and so far I try to make approaching with her but until now I found that it's hard to make it. She know that I love her, but right now I feel she indirectly can't accept me (I still don't know the reasons, maybe about my character, my status, my wealthiness, etc not suitable with her preference?). And many times I try to make approaching but the results still not so good. Please tell me everything what you know about her life, especially in a romance matter. I just make sure that Is she a woman worthy to be loved? So I can avoid unwanted occurrence of love or marital in the future. She has exactly 2 moles under right eyes, and some of my friends said that this is not a good moles especially for woman but I don't know why. If you have addition information about her natal chart, please let me know. So far I have consult some BaZi Master and some of them said that:

"When it comes to relationship with the opposite sex, she is inclined to be overly assertive and this may lead to communication problem. The Hurting Officer suggests a tendency to impose her will on others and your actions can bring misunderstanding with loved ones. There is further harmful interaction of the zodiacs that impacts on her Spouse Palace. This suggests marital problem cause by money and third party affairs. Her chart indicates that she is very popular with guys and can be flirty. She is not the faithful type and can be quite rebellious. For her, the year of the Ox tends to make her prone to sexual entanglement....and so on"

Somehow we feel a little strange having to screen a perfect stranger for another perfect stranger. This comes to mind when someone actually pops in with a beautiful lady by his side, one fine day and start to ask you funny questions liked this. Will one say the same thing as said by the other masters? We send the man away and start to ask the lady in private.

Thus, this is a very interesting chart for a lady. With all the movements in the branches, yet appearing beautiful in the stem. Hidden 7Killings with the combination of the Direct Officer, not transforming, what does this means? "Thong Guan" water in arbitration, yet being the much needed resource on one hand and the lack of it on the other, what is going on with her mindset, thinking, emotions and if she is betray what would she do at the most extreme case? Would one take her as a wife or a concubine?

You let me know...

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Strong Reacting As Weak - Where Does It Goes Wrong?

The case of a strong chart that reacts liked a weak chart. Salvaged from another forum of Chinese Metaphysics, a Wu earth male born in Singapore with a strong chart that favours output and wealth. Yet he is not satisfied as his life path does not match with the reading of the strong chart. We would investigate under ONE assumption: -

1) The first chart is based on his birth date and time in accordance to the country of birth. This concept is in lined with the notion of affinity and synchronicity.

His life path among others indicated the followings: -

1) For the first 20 years, he did well in academic achievement.
2) Relationship with dad is distant. Mother is close.
3) For the first LP, family conditions were poor.

Let us investigate these charts…

The first chart, Wu born in summer. Supported by Heaven and Earth. Strong self. Cannot be a vibrant
Chart. Ren and Ding cannot form wood. Some school of thought did not agree on this principle. The chart favours metal and water, among others are the output and wealth. For a strong chart, to be brainy as it claimed, the favourable gods must be prominent. A solid wealth at the hour pillar demonstrated such that this person has IQ, yet the tendency to combine and to clash away such by over self confident is significant and luckily does not transformed. So, the impact is lesser and unrevealed. On his own accord he will do well in school, although not without its price.

The father palace revealed a clash with the resource star and being unfavourable, indicated his distant relationship with his father. However, it is a different stroke for his mum, as revealed in the mother palace, mutually prospers with his resource. Because resource is unfavourable, his mum will have to toil for his livelihood.

Similarly, looking at his home conditions, a palace relationship clash occurred, activated by the 1st LP with the revealed of the unfavourable authority star, meaning their livelihood could have been better if his father would resume the responsibility as the bread winner.

So, this chart does reflect his life path after all, the only problem is the way it was read or as taught to him by others, makes it entirely lopsided as though it should have been a weak chart.

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The Boss Of "Cai Guan Yin"

Here is another example of "Cai Guan Yin". There is a reason to call it in the order of Cai, Guan and Yin, being resource is kept to the left. In this chart it is called Yin, Guan and Cai, a reverse order. What difference would that make?

Anyway, it is still Cai, Guan Yin structure. Not supported by season, neither are the stems and the branches with the exception of Xin. Can this chart be a fake follower chart?

Officer and wealth rooted. He is a well to do corporate figure. Only 2 roots as compared to 3 roots and yet make such a big difference, why?

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The Case Of A Double FuYin

This is another interesting chart.

Jia born in the end of winter. Will this end of winter be an earth month or a water month?

Note also, all the branches are graveyards not supporting the self, neither are the stems.

Technically, this is a follower's chart. Indeed if it follows wealth, then fire, metal and earth are favorable.

Now, comes 辛未 month, an accident happened to him that nearly cause his life. He is currently in the GengYin Luck Pillar.

Here, we notice a FuYin at the hour pillar with the month and the month pillar with the year. Would these crying events be of favorable? Best, would a follower chart ultimately follows?

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Cai Guan Yin

This is an interesting chart.

Yi wood born in summer, supported by the branch and but not the stem. Technically a weak chart. So, favoring water, metal and wood. Liked the chart of the millionaire, he too should have been a millionaire indeed? With rooted resource, wealth and self, yet this person is only of a working class. Why?

So, does owning a so called, "Cai, Guan and Yin" means a millionaire chart? Think about it...

Then, what happened to him at the following day, with technically, in DingHai Luck Pillar?

辛 戊 癸 己
酉 午 酉 丑

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Another Fake Follower Chart?

Is another Fake Follower chart season again. This time, will the fake followers really follow?

Ren water born untimely with no support from both heaven and earth. So this is a classic follower chart. With water revealed and rooted as a sub Qi in Chen, will this qualify as a fake follower?

Lets investigate further. Assuming a fake follower, making officer, wealth and output favorable.

She said, “My childhood (WuWu) was good did really well in school, had good friends, has lots of hobbies. Good relationship with extended family during this time…”

One perspective is, because there is no output in arbitration, her authority is “lousy”. However, because of the DE eclipse for her first 10 years matching her DE pillar in the natal chart, these “lousiness” has become very much less unfavorable. She could still be a fake follower.

She continued, “My teenage years and early 20s were not so good, that would be (Ding Si) Luck pillar. Moved to another country, has an eating disorder, my mother drove me crazy, could not decide what career I wanted for the longest time. Finally went to college for graphic design. Generally lot of instability and worry during this time. A lot of men wanted to date me, but I somehow picked the wrong type of guy.”

Ren is afraid of contamination, notably by Ji earth. During the solid fire pillar, such contaminations result in confusion especially coming from her mum as it involves her mother palace. Assuming a follower structure, the outcome is favorable.

She resumed, “Starting at age 26-27 (Bing Chen) everything got a lot more stable. I moved in with my boyfriend and we have our own apartment. I got a job doing graphic design, very close to home, the people are nice and they seem to like me and appreciate my work. It is a little boring at times, not enough variety and challenge. My boyfriend is nice and loving, but he does not have any money. He works hard, but is irresponsible, spends too much and never remembers to pay his bills on time. I feel that he has to be monitored like a little child and I don't have any desire/ability to control someone else. He can be impatient and sometimes has bad temper. I met him when I was 20, we broke up after 2 years, then got back together 3 years later. I considered leaving him many times. He asked me to marry him, I don't know if I want to do that. I don't want to leave him either.”

First, there is a Chen-Chen self punishment at the spouse palace. Then there is a Ren-Bing clash. So, it tells the story of learning to live together is a greater “self-inflicted” task. They will consolidate their differences and live happily ever after although not without a roller coaster ride, given a follower chart.

She concluded by saying, “My relationship with my mother got really bad when I was growing up. Now it got a little bit better, but I still don't like her and would rather not visit her if I can help it. My dad is cold and indifferent and I never had any type of "relationship" with him. He is generous, but any time he had any intentions of giving me money (when I was a teenager) my mother quickly put a stop to it. She is very controlling. He only started doing really well financially when I was an adult. My relationship with my sister and brother is very good.”

Her mother is always there for her although her actions may be seen over controlling. That is the nature when a fake follower lacked output, having a wealth in her mother palace. At the end, it means well for her. Similarly to her father, with a lack of “relationship” due largely to the DE. No doubt, her relationship with her sibling is good, there is a tendency for a Mao Chen harm, which among others leading to some rotten relationship between her spouse with her siblings.

In summary, a fake follower does follow. Do you think otherwise?

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A Rich Man Chart

“… I have the set of rules from Joseph Yu, saying like this:

1. The DM is untimely and has no roots. Minor roots NOT in the month branch are allowed.

2. There must be one RULING GOD that is the strongest in the chart. This GOD must appear in the STEM. The ruling GOD MUST timely.

3. There must not be any resource in the pillars. Minor resource in the BRANCHES may be allowed*If Resource appears in the STEM, it must NOT have even a minor root.

4. There must not be any major GOD that controls the Ruling GOD.

Have a look over my chart if you are free.... I suspect my chart is the Follow Power... Then, if you are agreeing, all the reading is different, my DM becoming the RULLING GOD, which is METAL... “ – A Friend from Nusantara.

Let us look at the chart. Jia born in You, autumn month. This is called not being born in season or the self is untimely. True enough, not a minor root shall be in the month branch otherwise it will not follow. Jia is only earthly supported by Yin and next to heavenly resource Gui. This cannot be a follower chart. It is just another weak chart, as there must not be any resource in the pillar.

Because this is a weak chart, resource, authority and self becomes favourable. In fact, there are more to this chart! This is a classic example of a rich millionaire chart with lots of properties and inherited wealth. The only shortfall is the useful god is not rooted otherwise it will be superb. Anyway that can be arbitrated when the roots find its way in the Annual or Luck pillar. This friend can use all the 5 elements to his advantages. Just the luck pillars alone tell that this person is very lucky with little bumps in his road of destiny.

Luckily he does not inherit a follower chart, likewise as he says, all the readings will be different.

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